Free Coaching Resources - Book Reviews "Bring Out The Best In People: How to Apply the Astonishing Power of Positive Reinforcement".By Aubrey C. DanielsReviewed by Fred L. Friend(Published by McGraw-Hill, December, 1993, ISBN 007153582/5240-7330177-540766) I like books that tell me "what to ..." and "how to ...". This book does that in a very practical way. "Bring Out The Best In People" -- isn't that the primary responsibility of every organizational leader? Would you like to better understand how to do that? Then read this book. I first heard of Aubrey Daniels seven or eight years ago when a fellow training coordinator attended his workshop on "positive discipline". The process she described struck me as a powerful, adult oriented, replacement for the traditional, adversarial, disciplinary process that treats employees almost as enemies. The positive discipline approach taught a step by step process to explain the situation in clear adult terms (without the usual blaming, fault-finding, and judging), then stating what performance changes were expected to correct the situation (and test questioning to confirm understanding), and lastly a call for the employee to make their own choice about future behavior -- understanding the consequences of that choice. I remember thinking how impactful this concept was -- the supervisor was no longer punishing employees -- he/she was communicating performance expectations and consequences. If the employee failed to perform, it was their choice to accept the consequences (i.e., the next step). It was liberating! The supervisor was no longer the school principal dealing out detention, suspensions, and expulsion. In this book, he continues to base his performance management approach on the familiar A-B-C model:
It places special emphasis on reinforcers (consequences) and the role they play in generating more desired behavior and reducing undesired behavior. Sound like old stuff? Check it out -- many very common practices are discounted in this book as ineffective (i.e., they don't produce change) or even counter-productive. For example, do goals and performance measures motivate people to perform? Not necessarily, goals and measurement are necessary, but insufficient. What happens when goals are met, or not met? To motivate positive change, there must be PIC (Positive - Immediate - Certain) consequences (also, find out about NICs). There are so many similar learning points in this book, it would be tempting to just start sharing as many as possible in this space. But there are too many, and their relevance for you will differ based on what you are looking for. However here are a few samples.
There are Seven Pillars of Positive Reinforcement that leaders should understand to successfully bring out the best in people.
These seven pillars set the stage for both individual and organizational performance that values people, teamwork, and success. This is just a sampling of the advice in this book. I appreciated what I saw because it confirms the most productive approach to improving performance is a coaching approach -- i.e., an approach based on communication, collaboration, and joint problem solving. It helps leaders adopt a new mind-set that lets them treat others as adults, who may need help -- recognizing and solving their own problems. It is a valuable resource for anyone who wants to continue to increase their success as a "coach". Best of luck. |
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